Want to chat sometime? If youre one of those guys whos been leading with Hey, baby or ur beautiful, you already know that doesnt work. Hi, how are you? Whats one great book youve recently read? And I dont even know you yet. This works for any keyword, like travel: Here's a conversation starter that's almost sure to get a response if her dog makes an appearance in her profile or photos: You can send an icebreaker like this one to just about any woman, as who doesn't.